All messages back and forth between members are recorded as conversations on the "Messages" page of your Mindahome control panel. When a member first contacts another from their ad or profile page, that first message starts the conversation on their 'Messages' page in their control panel. If you have a notice saying you have unanswered messages but can't see them, they will be in your Archives. To access your Archives click the link on the right of the 'Active' tab on your Messages page.